BG 13.9
असक्तिरनभिष्वङ्गः पुत्रदारगृहादिषु
नित्यं च समचित्तत्वमिष्टानिष्टोपपत्तिषु
asaktiranabhiṣvaṅgaḥ putradāragṛhādiṣu
nityaṃ ca samacittatvamiṣṭāniṣṭopapattiṣu
TRANSLATION
Non-attachment, absence of clinging to son, wife, home and the like, and constant even-mindedness to all desirable and undesirable events;
PURPORT
‘Non-attachment’ means freedom from attachment to things other than the self. ‘Absence of clinging’ to son, wife, home and the like means absence of excessive affection for these beyond the limits allowed by the Shastras. ‘Constant even-mindedness’ to all desirable and undesirable events means the state of freedom from joy and grief with regard to occurrences springing from desire.